Class and softness are the same to you, huh?
We aren't talking about 6 year olds who are trying to learn the game and beating them 50-0 could kill the fun for them before they ever get the opportunity to learn. We are talking about young adults, young adults who to get to where they are have to be hyper-competitive people.
There is absolutely nothing classless about playing to score with your backups in during a blowout. As a competitive person who has been on both sides of this. I want the other team to keep trying to score as a defender so I can try to prove myself. And I want my offense to keep trying to score as an offensive player for the same reason.
Crying about it, is SOFT.