We can all make excuses, but the real issue is that she doesn't have the talent to play her style at this level yet. First year, growing painfully (to her more than us, I'd expect). Only way to learn is to live, sometimes. We'll see. Keep up the spirit ladies, it's going to take a while, and probably new players that can do what she wants and play like she wants to play. Anyway, still think sometimes there is payback in this life....too.