To snydergirls3 - If you are related to MS, you might want to consider avoiding internet message boards. If you choose to read the contents, then toughen up and be ready to take the printed abuse. It comes with being the Head Guy and making a very decent living doing something you supposedly 1. enjoy doing and 2. (and this is important) - are effective in being successful in the 'WINS" column.
If you're going to derive joy from the compliments, then you also have to accept the questions of one's character, style and results.
Go HERD !!!